If you have arm hair and/or tummy hair we need to first judge how hirsuit you are. is there a layer of fur on your arms? Is it sparse? Is it dark? how high does it go up- to your elbow, to your bicep? As far as your tummy hair are there long pieces in it? Are there curly pieces in it? Is it thicker below the navel? Do you get stray hairs around your nipples? We are going to figure out the most attractive and least maintenance solution.
I have dark sparse hair from my biceps to my pinky finger. A downy trail from between my breasts to my navel. I have shaved and waxed and bleached. Shaving is a NO-NO especially on your arms-- we all make this mistake, but let's only make it once. noone wants stubble on their arms like a bad tranny. Arms are supposed to be soft and luminescent.
I have waxed my arms it doesn't hurt so bad, I recommend having a professional do it because the back of the arms can have dark hairs and one forgotten patch will give away the whole game. Waxing is recommended if you have a lot of arm hair. Get rid of it. You can be a savage woman without the fur, smooth arms are very feline and strangely hypnotic.
The best most painless and prettiest way I have discovered to mask sparse hair is to bleach it with Jolene Bleach, which you can buy at Walgreen's. The Bleach is going to tingle as it oxidizes on the hair. Put up with it and you will have white gold shimmer to your arms. It's pretty beautiful. People who do notice that the hair is blonde only remark how amazing that I am a brunette and have such pretty blonde hairs on my body. I find that the blonde hairs add definition to my tummy. When the hair is completely removed from my belly it looks a little doughy.
If you get the random hair around your nipple: Pluck it out. it will take about 2-3 weeks to grow back. DO NOT pretend it's not there. Get rid of it. Hold your breast up, and check under your nipple too.
As per always, if you like your arm hair and it's beautiful to you, that is the MOST important thing. As in Madonna's picture above her arms do not detract from her beauty and personality-- it only augments it. Have fun! Be yourself!